Saturday, October 9, 2010

Team Peeta

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Okay, so Peeta is to Edward, while Gale is to Jacob.  I always like the sensitive guy. :)
Anyway, this is my Hunger Games post. Where I say just how incredibly amazing this book is. Well, random thoughts would be more appropriate.  *spoiler alert*
And so here goes:
  • After reading the first 2 books last year, I thought, “This is the best thing since Harry Potter!”
  • I’ve been trying to get people to read it, but it’s a bit difficult to explain that the whole book is about children killing children on national television.  Sure, it’s a lot more than that, but the premise does sound violent. I did convince a few friends and, like always, I bugged my siblings to read it. (They love the series, by the way.Yey!)
  • Waiting a long time for Mockingjay was not very easy.  And I was a bit disappointed after reading the last book. =s
  • Don’t get me wrong, I liked how it ended and how it somehow reflects what goes on after wars and how people cope after all the trauma. But see, the problem is that I was waiting for something big to happen in the end. I was waiting for an epic ending. Instead, after the big explosion (parachutes scene), it was one anti-climactic scene after another. Add that to the fact that the story took so long to build up. Or maybe my expectations were just way to up there?
  • Why did Prim have to die?! :(
  • The epilogue wasn’t creative, but at least we know who ended up together. :)
  • Catching Fire is, hands down, the most exciting book (and my favorite in the series).  I love the Quarter Quell concept. But it was Hunger Games that made me cry.  (Rue!)
  • My favorite character is Haymitch. :)
  • I hate that they make movies out of the books right away, so a lot of people just skip reading and just wait for the movies =( But I’m still excited for the movie!haha
  • They better get a good cast(like they did with Harry Potter!).Like they keep saying, Hugh Laurie would make a great Haymitch :) Peeta better be cute!haha
  • They keep comparing this book to the Battle Royale . Must find that book/manga/movie sometime.
  • Now that the series has ended, what’s next? :) Might give in to peer pressure and read Fallen. haha ;)

Saturday, September 4, 2010

The Perks of Being a Wallflower

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“You see things. You keep quiet about them. And you understand.”

I officially have a new book to add to my list of favorites. A book that I am so glad to have found randomly in one of my favorite bookstores. “The Perks of Being a Wallflower” is one of those books that seem to talk directly to me. Like, I get this strange feeling that it was made for me. (Of course I know that it is not. Stephen Chbosky, the writer, will probably get so kilig if he finds out that some random girl from the Philippines thinks that the book he wrote more than 10 years ago actually spoke to her. I would, if I were him.)

The book is an epistolary (new word for me! it means that the book was written as a series of letters. In this case, the main character, Charlie, writes to an unknown person to share his day to day life with because this person understands and won’t judge him), a day to day chronicle of what goes on in the life (and in the head) of a shy freshman boy as he explores the normal growing up fare – family drama, love, sex, smoking, drugs, and passions such as music and writing.  It’s basically your typical growing up/coming of age kind of story in the same tradition as “The Catcher in the Rye” (which was, surprise surprise, the author’s inspiration for writing this book). If you liked that book, I am a million percent sure that you’ll love this one, too.

Charlie’s someone I can relate to, if not for his experiences (some are too extreme. Drugs? Nah, I’m a bit more mellow than he is) but  because of the way he thinks. It’s too familiar. Like my thoughts. And it’s a bit creepy. His observations about everything and everyone almost sound like my own thoughts. I think he and I would make great friends. It’s like finding your soul mate in a book character.

“When I was walking up the stairs to my dad’s old room, and I was looking at the old photographs, I started thinking that there was a time when these weren’t memories. That someone actually took that photograph, and the people in the photograph has just eaten lunch or something.”

“And I thought that all those little kids are going to grow up someday. And all of those little kids are going to do the things that we do. And they will all kiss someone someday. But for now, sledding is enough. I think it would be great if sledding were always enough, but it isn't.”

“Sometimes, I look outside, and I think that a lot of other people have seen this snow before. Just like I think that a lot of other people have read those books before. And listened to those songs.
I wonder how they feel tonight.”

See? I keep on thinking those kinds of thoughts. Probably the "connectedness” talent that I have (thank you for letting me know this, Strengths Finder 2.0.  Will write about this book sometime!)

I don’t know. Maybe I’m just a wallflower myself.

And somewhere in between reading the book, I came to a conclusion, that yes, I most likely am. I feel like I’ve been observing to much, not doing enough. Trying to understand everyone, not feeling intensely. I’m envious of people who feel every moment as intensely as every other moment in their lives(even though I sometimes think it’s too OA). I think I’m sometimes deliberately missing out on the “being in the moment” part of life. Must be “out there” more. 

“Maybe it’s good to put things in perspective, but sometimes, I think that the only perspective is to really be there. Like Sam said. Because it’s okay to feel things.  And be who you are about them.”

The only perspective is to really be there. Isn’t that a nice thing to remember? :)

This book has the most beautiful lines and the most memorable characters. I felt like those were my experiences. And that I’ve lived them through Charlie.

“So, I guess we are who we are for a lot of reasons. And maybe we'll never know most of them. But even if we don't have the power to choose where we come from, we can still choose where we go from there. We can still do things. And we can try to feel okay about them.”

I know when a book touched me so much when I can find so many memorable quotes and insights from it. This one has everything I’ve been wanting to read in a long while. Because while I enjoy reading about faraway adventures and magic and future worlds, it’s these kinds of books that make you appreciate reality and every piece of it. The bad things that make you a better person and the good things that are worth living for.

Saturday, July 17, 2010

Quote dump

This why I love to read. :)

"What is a teacher? I'll tell you: It isn't someone who teaches something, but someone who inspires the student to give of her best in order to discover what she already knows."
-Paulo Coelho, The Witch of Portobello

"If there is a Creator, what is he? And if there isn't a Creator, what is this world?"
-Jostein Gaarder, Maya

"The reason death sticks so closely to life isn't biological necessity - it's envy.  Life is so beautiful that death has fallen in love with it, a jealous, possessive love that grabs at what it can.  But life leaps over oblivion lightly, and gloom is but the passing shadow of a cloud."
-Yann Martel, The Life of Pi

"To choose doubt as a philosophy of life is akin to choosing immobility as a means of transportation."
-Yann Martel, The Life of Pi

"To lose balance sometimes for love is part of living a balanced life."
-Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat Pray Love

Thursday, June 17, 2010

Lip gloss therapy

Coming home from a very draining vacation weekend, I wasn’t feeling well at all.  Not that I didn’t enjoy my weekend because really, I had a blast.  It was just physically tiring.hehe

But there’s nothing new lipgloss can’t fix. I super love lipgloss (anything for the lips, actually. ask my friends). They’re instant mood boosters. I think our boss knew that when she got us(Billi and I) these as pasalubong from her New York trip.

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:):):)

These, among other things.  Other things included a cute purse (our brand, of course), a New York pencil and…

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yey! The Patricia Field Sex and the City 2-inspired clover charm necklace:)  (Patricia Field is a renowned celebrity stylist who did costume design for Sex and the City and The Devil Wears Prada. She also designs shoes for Payless, the brand I’m working for right now.)

How cool is that? I was thinking about getting this necklace once Payless opens in Manila, but now I actually have one. :D

So there goes my cough, headache and body aches. Reduced by half.haha I still have to take Alaxan, Bisolovon and Biogesic, but at least my spirits are up.  :)

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Bedroom ideas

I've been wanting to move to a new place for quite some time now. I just don't have the money yet. haha I hate it because there's so many ideas and cool things to.

Like this...

And this...

Still not sure if I want to stick to cute and girly (see above) or if I should be more grown-up (see below)

Pretty rooms, right?:) (I still like the girly designs better though.)

I also like these:
These are so me. ;)

Now I know why mom and dad were so giddy every time they'd open their "Dream House" folder back when we were still having our house done. At that time, I wasn't as excited. (But hey, it was their project. I want my own house too.hahaha) 

I did, however, decide on what Mia's and my room would look like. (Right now, it's just Mia's room. bummer. But the pink and yellow walls,. the bright pink and green curtains and the long bookshelf will everyday remind my dear sis of me. Well, I hope. Even though she's kind of converted my bed into an extra shelf while I'm not there. haha) Can't wait to see it again on Thursday. 

So right now, I can't really have my own room. These ideas will have to be filed under my "wishes and dreams" folder."  Haaaai. I wonder when I can have my own room again? :) 




Friday, June 4, 2010

Wants

Yza wants to read:

The Book ThiefThe Book Thief by Markus Zusak
Angelology: A NovelAngelology by Danielle Trussoni
Clever Maids: The Secret History of the Grimm Fairy TalesClever Maids: The Secret History of the Grimm Fairy Tales by Valerie Paradiz
Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with MarriageCommitted by Elizabeth Gilbert 


Yza wants to watch:
The Vampire Diaries: The Complete First Season The Vampire Diaries
Shutter IslandShutter Island
Friends: The Complete Series CollectionFriends (the complete series!)


Anything else I should add?
=)

Thursday, June 3, 2010

New Work! :)

Leaving my previous job is the best decision I’ve made this year.  It came at the perfect time.  And I was more than ready to move on.  Things were crazy over there (I will eventually share some tidbits in future posts) and I didn’t want to have any part of it anymore.  Of course, the bigger picture is that it didn’t offer me any opportunities for growth, career-wise.  In the long run, it really wasn’t a wise choice to stay.  For the record though, I really enjoyed the work, my colleagues and the perks.  But, you know, those aren’t the only factors that determine whether or not you’re staying.

So here I am, my third week into my new (and improved) job, having absolutely no regrets and extremely excited about our brand and the company’s future.  The change in atmosphere is very refreshing and as opposed to liposuction (which I heard 24/7 during my last job), shoes (which I hear about 24/7 here) are much more interesting.

Anyway, the point is, I’m happy happy happy with the choices I’ve made so far – resigning, taking a 2-month breather (more or less) , working for this new company.  I hope things work out well. :) Keeping my fingers crossed!

photo credits: Will Brenner Photography www.brennerphotography.us

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

My future baby:)

 
After watching "The Proposal", the only thing I wanted (aside from Ryan Reynolds, of course) was Kevin(the white, adorable, furrylittleangel they had for a dog). Sigh. Someday, you'll be mine.
 
The samoyed actually looks like a spitz.. This one in the pic looks like a spitz-chowchow hybrid.. sooooo handsome:) haaaaai

on the side: Speaking of handsome,here's our Dash(dad's german shepherd). Or Dashie, as I like to call him:)
 
Our dear puppy (or our youngest baby brother) Spy (mom's japanese spitz) is probably the closest I can get to owning a samoyed.
 
And while I'm in Manila, I have Celine (a gift from the sweetest boyfriend) to keep me company. She'll be my temporary baby (okay, permanent, since she won't ever die=D)
 
..until the day this cute little furball and I finally meet:) haha

 
"woof woof"
haha, it's talking to me.



Sunday, November 22, 2009

26 months:)


i always knew we'd get this far. :)
to celebrate, i'm posting this never before seen pic.haha
love you yellie!

Thursday, September 3, 2009

One great article to justify my bad habits. Very enlightening!hahaha

Being bad is good for you: Playing blaring rock music and skipping the housework can actually boost your health

By Victoria Lambert
Last updated at 9:10 AM on 01st September 2009
We've been told not to get angry - because it raises blood pressure. While fizzy drinks do nothing but rot your teeth and make you fat. But new research has shown that many of our bad habits may also be good for us. Here, VICTORIA LAMBERT presents the Good Health guide to when and why our bad habits can be positively virtuous...
ANGER
GOOD FOR YOUR BLOOD PRESSURE

We used be warned off getting angry because it raised blood pressure, but now it seems letting off a head of steam may bring physical benefits.
Researchers from the Carnegie Mellon University in Pittsburgh have found that people who respond to irritating, high-stress situations with some righteous anger maintain lower blood pressure and secrete less cortisol, known as the stress hormone, than people who respond with fear or bottle up their feelings.
It seems to be about how you react to situations. Demonstrating a level of anger that seems proportionate - such as letting off steam at an unjust situation - helps you develop increased feelings of control and optimism. But being fearful or frustrated doesn't, leading to a rise in the stress hormone, which when experienced for prolonged high levels, can lead to heart disease.
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Anger: Letting it all out can actually be good for your blood pressure
In the study, psychologist Jennifer Lerner harassed 92 students by making them perform difficult timed tasks under stress. She then changed the rules several times during the test. Wrong answers meant subjects had to start all over again, leading to frustration.
Video cameras recorded the subjects' facial expressions and researchers identified fear, anger and disgust.
They also recorded blood pressure, pulse rate and secretions of cortisol. The people whose faces showed fear during the tests had higher blood pressure and higher levels of the hormone than those who got angry.
VIDEO GAMES

BOOST METABOLISM
Despite being blamed for their part in the obesity epidemic, video games might actually help us get fit and lose weight. Scientists at the University of Miami hooked up 21 boys to various monitors while they played Tekken 3, a mock martial arts contest, on a Sony PlayStation.

These showed that during the game the boys' heart rates speeded up, they used more energy and began breathing more quickly. Study leader Dr Arlette Perry concludes that playing video games could have a positive effect on health, provided they're not substituted for real sport. 'It's better than just sitting there watching TV,' she says.'
SWEARING

EASES PAIN
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Swearing is good for you: Gordon Ramsay, well known for his liberal use of the F-word, will be pleased
Our ancestors may have bitten on sticks of wood when surgery was practised without anaesthetic, but a study has shown they might have been better off without. Scientists at Keele University found volunteers could withstand pain for longer when they swore rather than using non-offensive words.
Dr Richard Stephens, a lecturer in psychology who conducted the research, believes it may explain why swearing is still commonplace. Having observed his wife swearing in labour, he was motivated to find out why.

He believes swearing is connected to our adrenaline response and that it could even have evolved to allow our ancestors to fight back when attacked by predators.
'In the volunteers who swore, we also found they had an elevated heart rate, so it could be that swearing increased their aggression levels. Increased aggression has been shown to reduce people's sensitivity to pain.'
In the study 64 students submerged their hands in a tub of iced water while repeating their own chosen swear words. The task was repeated later using non-offensive words.
The swearing volunteers were able to keep their hands submerged for an average 40 seconds longer. When questioned about perceived pain they also rated it as being lower.
LAZING ABOUT

ADDS YEARS TO YOUR LIFE
People who get up early and busy themselves all day long are heading for an early grave, says public health expert Professor Peter Axt. He believes lazing about is the key to a long life and an antidote to professional stress, provided people are otherwise healthy.
He suggests: 'Waste half your free time. People who would rather take a midday nap instead of playing squash have a better chance of living into old age.' Research shows that people who run long distances into their 50s are using up energy they need for other purposes such as cell renewal and fighting disease, he adds.
As examples of his thesis, he has pointed to the increased longevity of zoo animals - for instance lions in the Serengeti live only eight years, but can live to the age of 20 in a zoo; Arctic polar bears last 20 years in the wild, but 40 in captivity. Human examples are priests, nuns and monks, who tend to live quieter lives.
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Lazing about: Why hit the gym 5am when you can spend the day on the sofa AND live longer?
Another added benefit is that our brains are much more active when we daydream than previously thought. 'Mind wandering is typically associated with negative things like inattentiveness,' says psychology Professor Kalina Christoff at the University of British Columbia. 'But research shows our brains are very active when we daydream, much more than when we focus on routine tasks.'
The findings suggest that daydreaming, which can occupy as much as one third of our waking lives, is an important cognitive state where we sort through important information.
GETTING STRESSED

BOOSTS THE MEMORY
While long periods of stress such as redundancy or divorce can leave your immune system depleted and your body prone to infection, researchers at the University of Buffalo in the U.S have found that a short stressful incident can boost your learning and memory.
This is due to the way cortisol, the hormone produced when we're stressed, affects the part of the brain which controls learning and emotion. Acute stress increases transmission of glutamate, the substance that passes messages in the brain - and improves working memory.
Zhen Yan, professor of physiology and biophysics, explains: 'Stress hormones have both protective and damaging effects on the body. This is why we need stress to perform better, but don't want to be stressed out.'
In the study, rats were trained to complete a maze, then half were put through a 20-minute forced swim - placing them under acute stress. They were then put through the maze again. Scientists found the stressed rats made significantly fewer mistakes as they went through the maze compared to the non-stressed rats.
AVOIDING HOUSEWORK

PREVENTS ALLERGIES
Rising numbers of allergies and auto-immune conditions (such as psoriasis, where the body attacks itself) are often blamed on the 'hygiene hypothesis'; the idea that our modern sterile society is too clean.

But dirt may not be the key. A survey last year carried out at Bristol and Brunel Universities found that women who used a lot of household cleaning products during pregnancy or shortly after giving birth are increasing their child's risk of developing asthma.

The study, which examined 13,000 children from before birth, found that early life exposure to such chemicals was linked to a 41 per cent increase in a child's chances of developing asthma by the age of seven. The chemicals in these products may have irritated the child's airways.
LOUD MUSIC

STIMULATES THE BRAIN
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Loud music: Heading off to rock festivals, or simply turning up the volume on your home amplifier might be good for your brain power
Heading off to rock festivals, or simply turning up the volume on your home amplifier might be good for your brain power.
According to researchers at Manchester University, music fans are stimulating part of the inner ear known as the sacculus, which responds to the beat in music. This gives the brain pleasure and makes us feel good - during the music and afterwards.
The sacculus, which is not thought to have any hearing function in humans, appears to be sensitive only to very loud volumes, above 90 decibels.
Neil Todd, an expert in the scientific study of music, explains that the sacculus seems to be part of a primitive hearing mechanism that has slowly been lost as humans have evolved.

He said it has a connection to the part of the brain responsible for drives such as hunger, sex and hedonistic responses.
When these desires are satisfied, the brain is stimulated into releasing feelgood hormones that make us calm, happy and responsive. So to trigger a dose of happy hormones on a Monday morning, you should, in theory, choose Black Sabbath over chamber music.

FIZZY DRINKS

COMBAT DEMENTIA
Despite concerns about rotting teeth and obesity, drinking two cans fizzy drink a day might help you avoid Alzheimer's and improve your memory by 20 per cent.
Neuroscientists from Glasgow Caledonian University said as well as the elderly who were struggling with short-term memory loss, people studying for exams could benefit - perhaps because of the sugar rush.
Psychology lecturer Dr Leigh Riby focused on an area of the brain known as the hippocampus, which creates new memories but declines with the onset of dementia.
Using memory tests and brain-imaging techniques Dr Riby assessed volunteers after they had guzzled fizzy drinks containing either 25g of sugar (the same as in a can of Coke) or twice that amount.
The hippocampus lit up with activity after participants had a sweetened drink and they were able to recall 17 per cent more than without a drink.
'It is accepted that when humans face a stressful situation they experience a natural rise in glucose in the body, particularly in the hippocampus,' he said. 'We also tend to remember these dangerous or scary occurrences more clearly than other memories.
'This glucose-memory system has evolved to help humans survive. Unfortunately, it is compromised in old age.'

FIDGETING

FIGHTS OBESITY

It may be irritating at the theatre, but natural fidgets are doing themselves a favour. U.S. researchers from the Mayo Clinic have found that people who always seem to be on the go are more likely to be slim - and may spend two more hours a day being active than their tubby friends.
The extra motion, whether it is tapping, twitching, stretching or yawning, accounts for an extra 350 calories a day, or between 10 to 30lb a year.
Endocrinologist James Levine of the Mayo Clinic, who led the research, says: 'There are absolutely staggering differences in the amount of fidgeting between people who are lean and people who are obese. The amount of this low-grade activity is so substantial it could account for obesity quite easily.'
The team also found that while we are born wigglers or sitters, there's no reason to stop a person deliberately adopting a fidgety habit. 'Some say obese people have no choice about their weight,' said Levine. 'But I would argue the opposite.'

BEING UNTIDY

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Being untidy: An unmade bed can deter dust mites which is good news for asthma sufferers
Unmade beds are the bane of many a mother's life, but researchers at Kingston University think they might be the answer to asthma. Their research suggests that house dust mites - thought to cause asthma - cannot survive in the dry exposed conditions found in an unmade bed.
Normally, the average bed houses 1.5 million house dust mites, which feed on scales of human skin; the mites' waste contains allergens which are easily inhaled during sleep and can particularly affect those with allergy problems such as asthma.
An occupied bed, or a made one that retains the warmth and moisture after the person has left it, is the ideal home, but house mites are less likely to thrive when moisture is in short supply.
According to Dr Stephen Pretlove, who led the study, mites survive by taking in water from the atmosphere - your body sweat while you're asleep.
'Something as simple as leaving a bed unmade during the day can remove moisture from the sheets and mattress so the mites dehydrate and die.'
PLAYING BINGO

EASES DEPRESSION
Gamblers may be healthier and happier than those who don't like a flutter, says research conducted by Yale University in America.
This found that moderate gambling, a weekly game of bingo or trip to the races, is a common denominator in adults who live past 65 and that those who gambled were mentally healthier adults of the same age.
This could be due to increased activity, socialisation, and brain stimulation, says Rani Desai, associate professor of psychiatry who led the study.
The results are also consistent with other work on healthy ageing: that having an active brain and a social life staves off dementia and depression. For instance, playing poker online will keep brain cells active; bingo or a trip to the Grand National will get you out of the house.
As most studies on the effects of gambling have found negative health benefits (and all the risks of addiction) the researchers say they were surprised by the findings and will continue their investigation.